A Little Advice for Future PCVs

This is a little advice for future generations of PCVs in order to avoid screwing over the people who will either be working after you or with your counterparts:


1. Don't sleep with a work-partner/counterpart
2. Don't party with a work-partner/counterpart 
3. Don't take your job lightly
4. Do your FUCKING job

Now these four suggestions come after a pretty horrific work meeting Abra and I had a few days ago with a few gentlemen who will remain nameless.

From the first minute we were in the room with Señor Big Creeper and Licenciado Bad Mouth (Clue: These are made up names) there was enough sexual harassment going on that a boss in the U.S. would immediately file a harassment suit for us. And before anyone starts blaming, I was still depressed over my dog (heck, my eyes were still red) and Abra was still being supportive... so there is no possible way to be sending mixed signals to these men who we would have to work with over the next two years.

After more body-on-body-touching attempts and a slew of weird sexual compliments, then came the comparisons:
"Pcv Hoo-Hah was really nice and went out on a date with us (there was even a few mentions of PCV Hoo-Hahs chest in this conversation)"
Pcv Boing-Boing takes longer in the schools and accepts everything we give, even alcohol"
Etcetera... 
I completely understand if you just want to be seen as one of them, want to build rapport in an easy manner, want some local booty or even want to accept free things, but honestly, you are screwing it up for the rest of us who are truly here to do a job. We are professionals and want to be treated as such-- not like women who drop their panties for a shot of tequila. No I don't want to drink at 7 am and no I don't want to sleep with you because you would be something I would want to experience.

And for the record, I can understand spanish and did understand your backhanded comments when we refused you... along with those lewd comments you shot at us from the front seat of the car. And we still don't want to sleep with you. But see you in a month for the next workshop, okay! Oh and please remember to keep your penis in your pants, kthnxbye!

5 comments:

  1. wowwww. yeah the whole male dominated culture thing is not something i'm looking forward to...

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  2. Honestly, for the most part, all you will have to worry about are random piropos (pick up lines) from strangers who generally mean no harm. This was a once in a lifetime incident which occurred because there was a line crossed in the past. 90% of the people I work with are men and it was only these two guys in one municipality which not only thought it was okay, put completely appropriate to go beyond the professional boundaries. Do not worry and if you have any questions, give me
    your email address. I'd be happy to give you the positives of Guatemala too!

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  3. ummm...whoa..maybe you should get facts straight before you start talking about people you don't really know...

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  4. Hey there anonymous,

    Thanks for the comment but seeing as PCV Hoo-Hah left about 5-10 years ago (forgot exactly the time frame since I'm trying to forget that day), don't think I'll ever get 'all the facts'. And since she's the one I'm thinking started this pattern... c'est la vie.
    But thanks for the suggestion, I'll remember that when I'm writing obituaries for the LATimes (joking).

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